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Gibberish..churning in my mind.

  • 7:00 am Uncertain about cook and my next 2 hours of professional work
  •  Emailed potential candidate for digital content marketing … about the details
    • She already has enough details to give a proposal
    • the budget..keywords…are irrespective her work proposal
  • 9:00 am: Finding good marketing resource to kick amazing ideas
  • 11:30 am : Listen to Snatam Kaur–mediate with guru ram das
  • 12:00 am: IDEA: Pen down my daily understand my decision pattern and skills to give something valuable back to society
  • 3:30 pm: Need ideas for side project
  • Thought: I need to start producing great own thoughts…experiences…lessons as guides/tips

    • To get some consulting opportunities
    • To prove my mettle
    • To grow beyond my cacoon
  • Everyone around is just giving advises on every blog..and funny part is we all READ it.

What I want to be .. renowned Marketing professional

What I need

  • Able to put complex Technical gibberish into wonderful communicable and easily digestible language
  • Create impacting content
  • Identify and Manage a great team…my support system…my army limbs

Every week one on one.

Focus on Data: What happened and WHY it happened.

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Posted by on November 2, 2015 in Life


Recycle: Gift wrap


It is Rakhi, along with her Rakhi Naisha will be giving away small presents to her brothers.

I did not have lot of craft material at Mom. So I took some smooth colourful newspaper wrapped the gift.instead of regular cellotape, I used black cellotape. I posted them as you ribbons.
And regular ready to use red ribbon.

Then I cut the alphabets (receivers name) from yellow notepad paper.

Tada..we are ready with good gift wrap.

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Posted by on August 27, 2013 in Mommy matters


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Babys day out


Ready for the first ride in her stroller.

It has usual three positions. Currently using the sleep position. Later will shift to reclined and sit up right ones.

My criteria for choosing the stroller:

1. Light weight but sturdy. As we live in apartment building with no lifts. I wanted the stroller to be light enough to easily carry around. Yet sturdy to not topple up.

2. Usable till atleast my baby starts walking.This one has varied positions to use from laying down to seeing straight positions

3. Ease of use. Not complicated for my maid to use as well.

P.s. I don’t want to get into brands that offer stroller and their comparison in this blog.

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Posted by on August 27, 2013 in Mommy matters


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Eventful Ear piercing

There are lot of different opinions about when ear piercing should be done for the babies.

I had decided not to get out done before 3 months of age. Also I was little scared about the whole process and pain involved, I tried pushing it late. Since her grandmom kept pushing to get it done at early age.

So finally after lot of insistence at approximately 4.5 months, I took up the courage to pierce her ears.

My mother inlaw called same lady which she had called previously for other grandchildren. And she promised me that she will handle the while process as I was sceptical and uneasy about seeing my child cry.

when the lady started the preparation, my mother in law declared she could not see the baby crying. That made me, feel all the more scared. Finally I held my baby tight and the lady pulled one gun shot in left ear.

As my baby had just woke up, she cried little loudly. So her grandmother got upset and took the baby away. She declared we don’t want any more piercing in another ear. We are ok with new fashion. 🙂

Soon father in law also started supporting her. And I got in tight situation, as I could not see such silly thing happening to my child.

All this happening when my husband was not happy with the whole idea of ear piercing at lot.

Finally I had to put my foot down. Since one ear was done, second had to be done. I knew that my child cried same during her vaccinations. I got next one done and consoled her. ,

Few moments later everyone was happy, baby looked calmed and Pretty.

It was indeed an eventful afternoon and something which we later laughed at.

That’s the love of parents and grandparents, that they cannot see their children in pain, whatever be the reason.

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Posted by on August 27, 2013 in Mommy matters



Organizing Baby (0-3 months) items

Babies of this age group have little needs, in terms of baby items. Since they are mostly breast feeding feeding-equipment are comparatively low. Few simple techniques will help keep the room clean and tidy.

I sorted my daily requirement list like this:

  • Shelf #1
    1. Tops
    2. Nappies
    3. Caps
    4. Handkerchiefs
    5. Socks
  • Shelf #2
    1. Sleeping blankets
    2. Swaddling clothes
    3. Towel
    4. Quick dry sheets
  • Shelf #3
    1. Medicines, grooming set, thermometer, etc
    2. Massage oil, powder, creams, etc
  • Shelf #4
    1. Diapers & wipes
    2. Breastfeeding pump
    3. Rattles

All other items like bed, crib set, diaper bag, toys, extra set of blankets, wraps, bed-sheets can be kept in separate wardrobe or organizer; as I wont require that on daily basis.

20130812_132058Baby clothes organizer

I found this organizer from ‘Cello’ with 4 huge drawers, very handy. It cost me around INR 2100/- It has wheels for easy movement and size of drawers is varied to accommodate large bottles of medicine/powder. 

Baby Medicine rack

I kept it close to my bed, so that I could access everything at one-hand distance during nights as well.

Let me know how have you managed.

More on organizing baby stuff coming soon..

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Posted by on August 12, 2013 in Mommy matters


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My weekend….at Frankfurt, January 2008

My weekend….at Frankfurt, January 2008

(got from old scraps..specially for this blog readers 🙂 )

I had pen down some thoughts n experience of some 24 odd hours…..

Caution:  There can be times were you might not understand what I m talking about(wrote at late nights..)…n sometimes…it might feel like “just cut the crap n say ahead”….n its ok…if you fall asleep in between….I had written it in bits n pieces…didn’t get to write at a stretch….so please bare with this….

Friday..I went home early..I mean earlier than usual….:))..Ate something and directly to the bed…. Slept immediately….without..packing or preparing my itinerary for next 2 days….some thoughts were going on through my mind……..woke up at 4.00..finally………couldn’t sleep more….packed my bag/tickets..routes/maps… watched favourite. “friends” for some time….slept at
5:45…next I I didn’t want to wake up..n go…..unwillingly I woke (as always)…took a lot of time..for everything…I felt like a small child..who knows no goals…just wanders around n gets lost in his own world….. left home after 8:00…was really in my own  world…enjoying silly things….like the sky… had really good colours…nice shade of pink.. I was going or one can say….strolling towards the airport… weird state of mind.. like…..even a small bird distracted me n put few more thoughts in my mind… in why I  never noticed it b4……a very weird/nice mood….I started wondering..what it would be. like to miss the flight…n how would people react…to this..:)) ….what would I say….when I call up my uncle/parents to inform that I have finally managed to miss the flight ….hi ha ha….was giggling…at the thought itself.

Flight Journey: I reached pretty late……but not late enough to miss the I had no luggage to check in….no more  queues for me :(( n what a luck…the flight was delayed….thankfully I had carried stuff to keep myself busy…( by this I mean “Da Vinci code” and Amsterdam 2008 book) read the book for sometime…thought…I would manage to kick start the book…by this weekend…but as I entered the flight…something  caught my attention…”financial times”– for 2  things..

1st :it had a picture of our prime minister Manmohan Singh and 2nd it was an “English” newspaper. ….got a copy…believe me…it was one intelligent thing that I did since morning… many amazing articles…I was confused..which one to read first…that’s one bad habit…I read some part..but m so curious to know..which other interesting articles are there..that I will leave them n go ahead..n in end .. read very few of article I  would like to mention was about Tata’s’ biding for Jaguar n Land Rover also covering Tata Nano’s impact all over the world..with Mr Ratan Tata….that reminded me..of some conversations..were people use to mention  about Nano’s impact n which didn’t sink in me during that time….. I read many articles..about travel n world…..but..I wanted to read that book I kept the paper aside..n started with the book..n next thing is…as expected..I was sleeping….woke up when someone handed me a chicken sandwich….I decided…not to read the magazines..they provide in flights….learnt about a small country.”Malta”. which I didn’t knew..where was it located….but seemed  very nice n fun place to be …for a trip………so……………obvious thought…”I should visit it sometime”. Its seemed unexplored …better than crowded places near world famous monuments….nice pictures of dive in ocean to glance the sea life….beautiful sun rise at top of some place…..n spending a lazy afternoon…… a gr8 break….in Mediterranean sea….

Then I started chatting with 2 old fellas sitting next to me…from Germany…a very obvious n common conversation…(where are you from? India…I have been there/want to go there….very nice/weird place…most of them would have seen Taj Mahal…(man..I don’t remember my trip..if ever it was ..called one…had seen when I was very young…n no pics…point  to note: Visit Taj Mahal)…other obvious questions..studying or working…(I regret answering this question also…I should have studied…but what??) do u like it here?..what’s the difference….n questions on India n Mumbai..( that reminds me..I have to update my  database…what’s the population of Mumbai??? I never get that as correct answer..I mean not even approximately correct..:))) enough quiz let me get into your shoes…n my same old questions…what’s best I should not miss about this places..other interesting’s ok  if that’s not well known..but “should not b missed” kind……..

Observations: Reached Frankfurt…oh’s such a HUGE airport..takes a while to get out….Human minds…or let’s say My mind..I always start comparing n  observing people too much….so I started making notes..about peculiar characteristics about Germans…even though there might not b anything particular…but I have this stupid thing about …I got to find something…..some observations like they r not tall n lean as people back in Netherlands..but short n on healthier side..peculiar cheeks…n most stupid/dumb conclusion…out of mere coincidence..was….a lot of these people have weak eye sight…cud see many wearing specs….(maybe that should be point for contact lens company to note)…I have this crazy observe not only people but also surroundings around like houses..and infrastructure..n trees….like I did in Oslo n Italy now Germany….don’t know if any of it is even true…..but keeps my mind occupy..n I enjoy it…Took the longest route to Messe Frankfurt..(not intentional…ended up with it)..there was quite a waiting time on train station n I was strolling up n down the platform…in my own world…lots of thoughts and maybe speaking to myself…n I think people did observe that..:))  but I had started enjoying every moment of it by now…sometimes it’s REALLY gr8 to travel alone…I had so much time for myself….was wondering if I m kind of person who is self absorbed…debating on this topic…..had a lot of arguments…leaving myself confused….Maybe I had decided to write down ..all these that time.. I was having good time….with myself..after a long time….maybe sometimes one should leave back all worries n enjoy small moments as it comes…I always tell this to myself.
Frankfurt Fair: And finally I reach the most awaited destination “Messe Frankfurt Trade Fair”, met uncle..n others.. After lunch started my tour of the fair….I couldn’t believe at magnitude of the fair…10 huge building connected to each other..n 3 floors on each n each floor having more than 100 stalls… was unbelievable….. it had 3 major parts…paperworld, christmas world, Beautyworld….we could rightly say it as “melting pot”….were people from all over the world came to show their talent and goods….n also see /check out others’…..people from all arts..culture..together….never imagined…..but event management was good n well organised……most of them in business wear…with portfolios n catalogues in hand…looking for good business deals….. I started with Christmas world…I was speechless n amazed looking at so many beautiful decorative items…each had its own much of creativity…I thank god..that these items were not on sale..I would have ended in buying many  unwanted(not needed) things…….that made me wonder how people from different regions had different tastes n likes…I mean…in India..I don’t think. people emphasise so much on decorations or interiors ….but back in Amsterdam…can generalise for Europe…a lot of emphasis is given to presentation n look n feel…be it house or shop or restaurant..very attractively presented.  

I couldn’t help ….took out my camera..n clicked few picas..keeping in mind for stalls which had photography prohibited signs…. but a very funny thing happened….I was clicking some pics..n lady from that stall came running towards me…to stop me…I I hadn’t clicked any yet..was just zooming to get right pic..she wouldn’t believe..n asked me to delete pics n show it to her…I had tough time..not to laugh n convince n  also b embarrassed at same time….:))  I quickly put my camera back…no more embarrassing situations for the day…. uncle had sent his elder brothers son with show around the places…man…he would go in proper sequence not missing any stalls….I couldn’t see or go thru each..everytime I took shortcuts n finish the floor quickly… after a while he had to agree to my way to checking these stalls….n move towards paper world. Soon all the amazement n fun faded… I was getting tired… so I decided to have some fun….there were some artists showcasing their talents n doing stints for people….hence as usual a lot many people would b there ..would have to wait for one’s turn….but this wait was worth than checking few more stalls..
1st destination: People getting their (& their beloved ones) names written in calligraphy way on handmade colourful paper…..lady before 4 of them written ..waiting for my turn…..I was wondering..what I cud get written on it……my name.??..hmn..that was too clichĂ©’  ….people use to scribble the names on one common sheet….as my turn came…I just asked to write “Life is Beautiful” ..I was wondering if she would write so much….gave her the paper she glanced at it n smiled with amazement….I loved my sheet..even though it was plain paper as coloured ones were over….everyone on the table..had a smile. As they saw the quote……. that fellow asked me..why I got this written..very unusual…I replied “because life is indeed beautiful”…I know he didn’t get it…dumb guy..
My smallest contribution for this Guiness Record Maker.
2nd destination: There was this guy..trying to make Guinness painting using a very very huge brush..maybe as big as a room….we had to take..a canvas frame n hold the brush ..he would dip tip of brush in oil colours n paint a picture for each…normally he asked what we wanted him to paint….things I saw in frames that people held.. was 90% times a heart..n rarely a flower….That blue-red-white heart….was not appealing…..mine was his 596th painting..n he saw mine card written “life is beautiful”  n talked a bit..I opted for flowers…..n he painted 6 colourful flowers…..I couldn’t see the painting when he was doing it…as I had to hold the huge brush….but was very happy…as I saw it…….moreover….people came over to me to check that painting…unusual n colourful painting which took little longer time than others…..I flaunted that with pride…also because the oil colours were fresh..couldn’t hold it sideways……stupid me….I was enjoying all the attention…which the 2 things in my hand got…J)

I was determine that I have to make the most of my time, but I was warned by this fellow that “no more silly stuff & queues for such items” (as if I was going to listen).I headed for next destination….:) A cartoonist.

Cartoonist himself was a cartoon. A perfect replica of Jim Carrey, similar dimples, all hair Hayward, making funny faces n bulging eyes. When I sat on the chair opposite to him to draw my pic, I couldn’t stop laughing. The moment he looked at me, I would burst out laughing. I asked him not to make funny faces. He said, it helps him; those funny lines reflects in our faces n he could make nice cartoons. I was worried that if I laughed too much, he would draw thin lines for my eyes, as it is they r  too small….:))  He made pretty bad cartoon :))…everybody laughs at it :))

There was one more artist..cutting/making our faces on black shadow…but I wasn’t allowed to go there….my escort was fed up..of my madness…..finally I returned back to our booth…we packed for the day n moved out…we went to some shopping area..called Zeil…roamed for some time….had dinner..went to hotel…..chatted for a while…….other uncle had been to so many diff places..n has good knowledge… was good sharing n learning……

Back to my room, I laid down on bed, wondering, talking to myself  “ It wasn’t as bad, as I imagined…pretty much..enjoyed it”. I sometimes so need my space n time & I got all that, not thinking about past or future, had just lived every moment as it came, little bit craziness n bit of unnecessary pride…..

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Posted by on October 4, 2011 in Random Thoughts


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Do you have the Start-up skills?

If you have the necessary ingredients required for Start-up World (Passion, Dedication, enthusiasm, Never-say-die attitude), market yourself to land that big career-booster job.

Check how one email from Standford student got him a huge job at Foursquare.

Two years ago, a Stanford business school student named Tristan Walker sent Foursquare cofounders Dennis Crowley and Naveen Selvadurai an email out of the blue, asking for a job.


Today, Tristan is Foursquare’s director of business development.  During his tenure, he’s built partnerships between Foursquare and huge brands such as Bravo, MTV, CNN, New York Times, NBA and Starbucks.

To celebrate the two year anniversary of the email, Tristan just published it on his personal blog, along with some notes:

Today marks two years since i sent my very first email to dennis and naveen (wow i was such a nerd! ha). naveen sent a reminder to team foursquare today and i thought i’d share it on my blog. Man, how times have changed:

Hey Dennis and Naveen

How’s it going? Hope all is well!

My name is Tristan Walker and Im a first year student (going into my
second year) at Stanford Business School (originally from New York).
Im a huge fan of what you both have built and excited about what you
guys have planned for FourSquare. It is an awesome , awesome service.

I would love to chat with you guys at some point, if you’re available,
about FourSquare. This year, I’m looking to help out and work
extremely hard for a startup with guys I can learn a ton from. Dennis,
with your experience at Google and the Dodgeball product, and Naveen,
with your experience at Sun and engineering in general, I know I could
learn a great deal from you both!

Before business school, I was an oil trader on Wall Street for about
two years and hated it! Moved out to the Bay/Stanford to pursue my
passion for entrepreneurship and the startup world. This past spring I
had the opportunity to work for Twitter as an intern and learned a
ton. Solidified my commitment to working at a startup that I’m
passionate about, and FourSquare is one of those startups that I
believe in.

I know you guys are probably getting inundated with internship-type
requests, but thought it’d be worth a shot! I can assure you Im humble
and Im hungry! Let me know if you’d be interested in chatting further.
I definitely look forward to hearing from you.

Stay awesome!

tristan j. walker |  mba class of 2010
stanford graduate school of business

A few things to note here:

  • i spelled foursquare “FourSquare”…capital F and capital S….TWICE! (so taboo these days) ha. Talk about green…and who says “stay awesome!” (hilarity!)
  • i sent this email after really thinking hard about this post from Jenn Van Grove at Mashable (thx jenn!). After reading, i IMMEDIATELY started to think about the potential for merchants and brands to start interacting with customers in ways that have never been done before. I read that post in May of that year I believe and signed up that same day
  • After my using foursquare everyday for about two months I knew i had to work for the company. On July 16th i scoured the internets, found Dennis and Naveen’s emails (#crazytristan) and shot them an email right away. This was before they even had email addresses (and well before our series A round).
  • This is the first of 8 emails i sent Dennis/Naveen. They both must have thought I was crazy. On the 8th email Dennis replied

“you know what, i just may take you up on some of this, are you ever in nyc?”


You could tell he was a bit annoyed (sorry dennis! oh well…ha) I thought on it for a little bit, and replied back (something along the lines of…):

hey dennis, yeh I was planning on being in ny tomorrow [i was in LA at the time!…and no, i definitely had zero plans to be in NYC] how about we meet up live at your offices?


then i booked my flight that night, flew out the following morning, hung out with him and naveen for a week and one month later I was full time at good ol foursquare

  • which brings me to the last point. a lot of folks ask me how Ive been able to secure some pretty cool spots at awesome companies and my answer is always the same. “be so enamored with the product that you would work for the company even if they didnt hire you….more importantly find where the needs are within the organization and be willing to do whatever it takes to help them fill the need (work for free even!)…and MOST importantly make sure that youre filling a need that the organization doesnt have the resources to fill on its own. If a company is not willing to let a hungry, passionate, smart, unpaid advocate of the product help the organization to fill that need (when it doesnt have the resources to do it itself) then you probably shouldnt be working at the company anyway. They’re just being arrogant”…Dennis and Naveen made pretty clear that their passion was with product (and theyre the best in the world at it). I knew i could help them (without much guidance and hand holding) to think through the business opportunities / potential for foursquare. And i did it for free (for 30 days at least :)). I gained their trust, which was most important.

The past two years for me have been nothing short of amazing. Dennis/Naveen didnt have to but they gave me a shot and really did change my life. I owe those guys a ton and im truly appreciative of it all. Now, back to work…. 🙂

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Posted by on July 27, 2011 in Marketing Matters


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